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The Definition of a NoHo

“We aint no hoes or nothin but I have sum friends willing to get down if paid so wut yall tryna do?”
They say in life there are specific snapshots that determine our legacy. When I received the text above (copied verbatim) on March 12th 2009 2:53pm Central Standard Time it changed my legacy. It is that text that sparked the entire idea for this website.
Up to then I was just your normal average Bona Fide Sports Expert Robert Littal planning a Las Vegas trip with my friends …

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Black Men + White Women = Truth

You might not like what I am about to write, but it needs to be written and I think I am uniquely qualified to handle this subject.
Until I was 14 years old the only white women I ever saw was at my mom’s job.  Then I was shipped off to a private catholic predominantly white High School where in four years there was only seven black girls that attended  the school (and they weren’t cute).  From that point I moved on to The Ohio State University the second biggest university …

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My Dissertation on Black Women

What is ironic when I posted a picture of Reggie Bush on the cover of Essence shirtless on BlackSportsOnline I did it because I thought women would like it.  Little did I know the controversy it would start.
I have Google alerts set up so I know any time people are talking about me or any of my various projects (you will be shocked how many people mention break lamps and nohos in a day).
In is very rare that a twitter conversation sets off an alert, but after the very long …

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Is She a Ho or Entrepreneur? You Make The Call

I want your opinion on this.  This is a true story I am not making anything up, so lets get started:
This young lady is named Tierra.  She is a “Web Model” (no porn, but nudity).  She has a website:
http://club-tierra.com
Pretty young lady, not knowing her personality, but just basing off her looks I don’t think too many guys would not try to holla at her. With that being said there are millions of young ladies like her walking around. Nothing that special about her.

A friend told that he knew …

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The 5 Reasons Men Cheat

The million dollar question:
WHY DO MEN CHEAT??
I have the answer ladies, so I suggest you take out your pad and pen because I am about to save some relationships (or destroy some, but I digress).
Here are the reasons men cheat:

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The Opposite Sex Contract

I am a sports journalist, so it isn’t unusual for me to equate matters of the heart with sports analogies. One of my favorites to explain to people, and now to you, is the art of:

“Contract Negotiations”
This is going to be told from a male perspective, but it can apply to anyone because the premise is the same.
When a team has the #1 overall pick in the NFL draft, that team will spend millions of dollars and many hours scouting to make sure their pick will be the one that …

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Relationships in The Age of Ambiguity

Welcome to 2010: The Age of Ambiguity. Well, in regard to relationships, that is. I recently took an impromptu poll amongst friends in the 21-35 age range and learned something that I’ve suspected for quite some time… None of them are technically in a relationship. Now, don’t get me wrong – all of the people that were polled seem to be in some fascimile of a relationship. If my opinion were asked, I would label them as being in a relationship. In reality? None of these people sat down and …

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Sandra Bullock and the Post-racial Adoption Era

If you’re like me, you don’t really follow entertainment news, but nowadays it’s nearly impossible not to find yourself bombarded by updates on your current celebrities. You’d have to be living under a rock not to have been paying attention to the latest news break in the entertainment industry… Sandra Bullock has filed for divorce from her husband Jesse James and revealed that three months ago she adopted a baby boy from New Orleans named Louis Bardo Bullock.

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It’s taboo in greater society, but we all know that makes it all the more desirable. No, kiddies, I’m not talking about smoking loud packs. Your Auntie Ginger is talking about sex in public places. If you haven’t done it yourself, I’m sure you can think of at least one friend that has. Those 1,000 count sheets and goose down comforters may sound good when you’re ready to hit the hay, but not everyone strictly sticks to the mattresses when getting down and dirty. Whether you’re looking for a little …

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New Year’s Eve, the biggest night of the year for couples. There is a saying that whoever you’re with on New Year’s Eve is who you will be with for the rest of the year.  New Year’s Eve does not lie; it is the night that will tell the truth. How’s this; So you think he’s your man? You’ve been hanging with him many days and nights throughout the year. You both have had so much fun and good times.  Yes there have been days that he has been MIA, …