Before you start you have to read this to understand where the phrase “reggiewayning” comes from.

Natasha McKenzie Accused of Stealing $93,000 From Colts Star Reggie Wayne, She Claims Affair
A lot of people believe when I am talking about reggiewayning I am saying you should never spend money on a woman.

That would be untrue.

Believe it or not I am a romantic.  I still believe in the “dinner and a movie” premise, but just with a slight alteration.

The crux of reggiewayning is unsolicited trickin.

Say it with me again:

UNSOLITICTED TRICKIN

I am sure when Reggie Wayne handed over his debit card he thought he was being “helpful” to his jump off, not realizing she was a bit slicker than he gave her credit for (no pun intended).

Women are very smart, much smarter than we are, but that is why I am here to help you guys out.  A lot of men can recognize a woman who overtly is out for their money, it is the ones that are subtle that are the dangerous ones.

They are the ones will leave subliminal messages while you are texting back and forth:

(this is a real exchange as shown to me by a female.  The names have been changed to protect the guilty and I might have slid in a BSO plug)

Tina: What you doing?

Reggie: Chilling, reading blacksportsonline, what you getting into?

Tina: I want to go see Trey Songz tonight, but don’t think I’m going to go.

Reggie: Word? Why not?

Tina: I need to get my hair done, but I got to pay my baby’s daycare and you know baby comes first and my baby daddy tripping.

Reggie: He still not paying that child support?

Tina: No and he hasn’t seen Lil Travis Henry Jr in like 3 weeks.  *sighs*

Reggie: He is such a scrub.  How much is it to get your hair done?

Tina: Just like $120 my cousin would do it I need to get the hair though.

Reggie: Well if you really want to go I can get the hair for you?

Tina: I couldn’t ask you to do that, I just really want to see Trey though.

Reggie: It’s cool I worked a little OT so it is no problem.

Tina: You are soooooo sweet; you are such a good “friend”.  I am so excited.

Reggie: Who you going to concert with?

Tina: My girls, I will be sure to send you a pic.

So for your generosity you will get a pic of her hugged up with Trey Songz sans panties.

I asked the young lady why did she take his money if she had no interest in him and her answer was clear and direct:

“I didn’t ask, he offered and I love Trey Songz.  I said thank you, no one twisted his arm.”

See Reggie Wayne can get away with ReggieWayning because he makes million of dollars, but Reggie working at Foot Locker not so much.

Don’t be manipulated by women out of your overtime check.  No one is going to turn down free money especially if you are volunteering.

Plus if you start out handing over cash you will always be seen as an “ATM DUDE”. You don’t want to have that reputation.

The ATM DUDE doesn’t break lamps, he is the guy the girl calls to come over and fix the lamps she broke with the other dude.

Don’t be “moist” if you are going to buy some lacefronts be a man about it, be strong with it:

“If I am buying this hair, first off I am going to the concert and secondly I am breaking your lamps afterwards, cool?”

Reggiewayning is a passive approach and it is based off “hope”.

You are hoping if you buy XYZ she will like you, but what women won’t tell you is if they like you, they like you have nothing to do with your bank card.

The problem is that men read as much gossip as women and they see women are attracted to “ballers” and they feel the need to do the same.

Two things they are forgetting.

A-     Women are attracted to fame and power as much as money.

B-      When the real ballers trick they have the money to cover it.

Don’t waste your time on a woman who is following OchoCinco around the country and you are working at Burger King.  Don’t get me wrong she will still take your Double Whopper, but you will end up the one hungry.

The overall point is keep your debit card in your wallet and only pull it out for women who aren’t looking for it, because those are the women who pay you back and I am not talking about in cash.