5 Things Men Can Do Better in 2010

In 2010 my goal is for the Fellas to unite and do better.  In reality we are all brothers, but we have some things we need to clear up and that is where I come in.

  Here are 5 things men need to do better in 2010.

1-      Stop being hypocrites when it comes to cheating.

I call this “Best Man Syndrome”.

In the movie The Best Man the Morris Chestnut character cheated on his fiancé often, but as soon as she cheated on him (with his Best Man) he mentally had a break down.

We have to grow up.

If you are cheating on your chick don’t be shocked she is cheating on you.

If she is cheating on you, don’t blame the other dude or her, blame yourself. 

Now if you have been faithful that is a different story, but if you haven’t you can’t be a hypocrite about the situation.

You need to man up and either forgive her or let her go.  Don’t hold it against her or look down on her because then you should be looking down on yourself.

If you forgive her, never speak on it or bring it up.

2-      Stop lying

First off men are bad liars and secondly lies pile on top of each.  Men lie to women to try to break lamps with them or to make sure they don’t know who they are breaking lamps with.  They also lie just to lie.

We need to stop that.  The truth is better and I will tell you why.

If you want to have sex with a woman just tell her, all she can say is no.  But you will be shocked how many will say yes.

You have to be polite about it, use some common sense and feel out the situation, but if that is what you want to do just let her know.  It takes the guessing game out of the situation.

This is especially handy if you are spending cash.

Before you fly some chick half way around the country to see you or you go visit someone, you must get the guarantee.

If the young lady is “unsure” at least you can make an inform decision.  Don’t spend cash on “hope”.  You will end up being a broke lonely brother.  Sometimes the chick will even tell you what needs to get done to close “deal”.

Also if you lie to women to sleep with them it will only lead to more drama down the road. 

If you are honest no drama, no stress.

3-      Condoms are our friends

Let me preface this by saying if you have a baby by a woman regardless of what your situation is with that woman be a father to your child.

There is no worse dude on the planet than the guy who is impregnating multiple women and not trying to have any relationship with his children.  Don’t be that dude.

Now with that being said men we need to be extremely careful who we are having unprotected sex with.

Condoms are $8

The alternative is if you get a young lady pregnant who you have no intentions of being with is 25% of your gross income.  Not to mention the various diseases floating around.

I majored in Journalism not math, but $8 sounds better than 25% of my income.

In 2010 just wrap it up.

4-      Face>>>Ass.. not the other way around

I blame Buffy the Body for this.  In the last few years if you are a female as long as you had a big ass your face could like Plies and men would slurp  all over you.

That has to change in 2010.

Remember when you wake up in the morning you turn over to the face not the ass.

Simply put if her ass is he best quality then that should be a red flag.  We need to put an emphasis back on the total package fellas.

I am talking about about pretty face, nice frame, proportion body and just a well rounded young lady.

When you are out with your lady people should be like:

“Lucky guy she is beautiful”

Not:

“Damn she got a phat ass.”

More attention for young ladies that look like this:

Less attention for young ladies that look like this:

The  “TOTAL PACKAGE” is what is hot in 2010.

5-      Stop fighting each other

Men get in trouble because of three things:

Women, Money & Ego

Not in that particular order.  The reason men have so many issues is because we are always infighting between each other.

As I stated above we are all brothers the last thing we need is to be killing each other off.

Not saying you have to be a punk, but you only have one life, so you need to be very careful what type of altercations and situations you put yourself as a man.

There are many men like myself that can’t just think about themselves, but have to put their children first. 

Trust me my daughter has probably saved me for entering into situations I knew weren’t the most safe just because I didn’t want to risk it.

Just think before you act.

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2009 was a rough year for the fellas, but don’t worry we are resilient 2010 we going to turn it around.