Black Men With $$$ + White Girls = Out Of Luck Sistas?

I have a suggestion… why don't you actually do some research? Why not go get some numbers to back up your claim that: "It seems that the vast majority of the time when you see a black professional male athlete or entertainer and their significant other, the chances are the significant other is not a black sista." It was impossible for me to even take you seriously for the rest of your post about 'perception' that was based entirely on a 'perception' that isn't actually backed up by real numbers. Are there some high profile black men with white wives? Sure, and maybe it's at a higher rate than black man with more average income, I don't know. But it's also not the *majority* of highly paid black men as you say. We can make a list just as long, if not much longer, of high profile black men that are married to black women. I'm not discounting everything you're saying about what society deems beautiful, but I'm tired of people acting like there's some epidemic of black men going after white women or that it even comes close to outnumbering the number of black men in relationships or married to black women.

What be blowin me is the hypocritical nature of the whole thing… trying to tell a black man that he's *supposed* to be with a black woman is no better than the white man saying how undesirable black women are. Black men don't owe black women anything just because of race, especially when most broads wouldn't want that man *unless* he had money, if at all. So now he's a black man with money and that means his black wife *has* to be on his side or he's a sellout? You don't know that man so miss me with that. His relationship is not yours, mind your business.

LexiTalks: "There is no question that society views Caucasian/European/Exotic women, hell anything other than a black more beautiful than a “Black Woman”."

LexiTalks:"They are attracted to what society has deemed to be beautiful, the non-white woman. Yet, there are some men who struggle with dating or marrying a white woman, for them they usually end of getting a mixed female or a black female of the lighter complexion. "

WHAT? I'm confused here. First you say how society says white women are more attractive, then you say "what society has deemed to be beautiful, the non-white woman." You completely contradict yourself in the above two statements.

Anyways, I just wanted to say that it is human nature to be attracted to that which we see as beautiful. You and others make these blanket statements that "society" has this huge control over what we think is beautiful. I think it's just a matter of personal taste which is ingrained since birth, and then we see it in adolesence. I have friends that like dark girls, friends that like light-skinned girls, asian girls, white girls, tan girls, big girls and small girls. It really is just a matter of personal taste.I've ALWAYS liked white girls. My first grade crush was a white girl and I grew up in a black neighboorhood. I like some black girls but usually the lighter ones with softer facial features that I am more attracted too.

Society says that men should like women, and yet there have always been gay men. What do you say to that? People are attracted to healthy, symmetrical faces. In women, men tend to prefer soft feminine features. Nothing against Somoan women, but in my experience they tend to have sharper, more masculine features than most other women I have seen and yet they have lighter skin and straighter hair than Black women, so why aren't Black men flocking to them?

It's all about personal taste AND human nature and more White women have those soft feminine features that most men of all races tend to look for than Black women do. It's not something that we are trained to like, it's instinctual. It's the same reason that women go for more masculine looking guys. It isn't because they are black or white or whatever. Women have almost ALWAYS gone for darker skinned males (tanned males among Whites), and strong jaw lines and strong arms. Black men tend to have the strong jaw, muscled body and confident swagger that women are attracted to. That's why white girls love us. Unless we act too ghetto and they get scared. 1

A bit of a tangent…An experiment was done where female lions were introduced to fake male lions with blonde, red and brown manes. Also they had one with no mane at all. The female lions showed more interest in the one with a dark, full mane. It has been associated with potential for more strength and power so it influences her decision. Humans are no different. White women flock to black males because of their confidence, and potential for physical prowess which they associate with safety and well-being.

Society hasn't brain-washed black men. Men just find women with certain features more attractive than those without those features. IT just so happens that a lot of white women fit the look, and less black women do. This is not to say that black women are not AS BEAUTIFUL as white women, just that the numbers in a concentrated area are going to be less than the number or white women. I am attracted to all races of women that I find have the soft, feminine beauty that I am looking for. Look at Vivica A FOx, Serena WIlliams and Alex Wek as examples of Black women with those features that I'd consider beautiful and they aren't super-mixed or something, like Halle Berry.

Damn, this post is all over the place but I think my point is clear.