New Year’s Eve, the biggest night of the year for couples. There is a saying that whoever you’re with on New Year’s Eve is who you will be with for the rest of the year.  New Year’s Eve does not lie; it is the night that will tell the truth. How’s this; So you think he’s your man? You’ve been hanging with him many days and nights throughout the year. You both have had so much fun and good times.  Yes there have been days that he has been MIA, …

2009 Revenge of the Jump Offs: Chick 2B Strikes back
2009 will go down as the year Jump offs and side chicks struck back! Just a quick look over some of the indiscretions that made headlines this year cements the fact that sports and side pieces go hand in hand.
The popular conversation amongst many once you move past the obvious “they shouldn’t be cheating to begin with”. Is the idea that these men need to choose someone that has “just as much to lose as they do” So while others have …

Ever since this Tiger situation went down and all of his assorted mistresses came out, fellas would ask me if they are going to cheat what is the best type of woman to cheat with.
My answer is always the same, you shouldn’t cheat if at all possible, but if you must these are the types of women to cheat with:
1-      A woman with a lot to lose
This goes along with the “Cheating to Upgrade” commandment.  Don’t cheat with your co-worker, cheat with your boss.  Don’t cheat with a married woman …

Brothers with money, Sista you ain’t got a chance!
Yep, I said it! I know some sista is cursing right about now, but the odds of a Sista ending up with a Brother with money, is Very Slim.  Interracial Dating is a touchy and controversial topic for both men and women of all races. Before you look at my picture and pass judgment on this article I’d like you to know that it is a collaboration of several women and men, of different races. Nothing here is absolute or 100%, but …