BREAKING LAMPS TIPS
written by LexiTalks for BreakLamps.com

Aaahhh SEX! The topic we love to discuss. I recently had a discussion with some ladies that have never or very rarely experienced an Orgasm. I was totally shocked and that is pretty hard for me. One lady said that when she gets to a certain level of excitement and begins to shake she would have the man pull out. WHAT!!!! I was floored, could not believe that. “Are you crazy” I said? “Girl, you were on the brink of the “BIG O”, why stop it?” Whatever the reasoning she gave made absolutely no damn sense to me and kind of went in one ear and out the other ear.

I enjoy sharing my knowledge and information I’ve learned about sex and relationships with people. I feel everyone should be able to enjoy themselves as much as I do. So, the other night on Twitter the Trending Topic was #sextips. Since we’re all consumed with sex for the better part of our time, you can guess that the timeline was jumping with #sextips. WOW, what a fun night that was.

Now, today I noticed several #sextips recommending watching Trey Songz video ‘I Invented Sex’. I hadn’t seen this video nor recognized the song title (sorry). Because I consider myself somewhat of a Sexologist, my first thought was ‘what could this young guy show or tell me that I don’t already know’? Then I thought about all those lovely ladies who are so deprived and might learn something so, I decided to take a look at the video.

So here goes:

I first viewed the video on mute, on purpose. The video was very romantic and looked liked to people having fun, enjoying each other, seductive and yes, it included FOREPLAY. All the elements of Great SEX! Definitely reminiscent of many times I have experienced. What struck me is there are still men and women, young and old that don’t practice the Art of Seduction or Foreplay. I realize that people have their own likes and dislikes, hell that’s what makes us all different, but if you’re not being satisfied these days it is time to change gears and spice it up. For me, I concentrate on pleasuring my partner and in return he automatically pleasures me to the upmost. Everything won’t work for everyone, so one has to do what feels good to them and PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE.

I decided to list several #sextips that can be used by him or her, some my own and others from what was tweeted. The #sextips never end. Open your mind, do something different and have good SEX!!!!!

#SEXTIPS:

#sextips Kiss and lick her inner thighs
#sextips Hold her butt cheeks and spread them open
#sextips Be open to try anything at least once
#sextips Give him sex anytime he wants it
#sextips Never be intimidated by a sex toy
#sextips 69 is a Great Number!!!
#sextips Fuck her with your tongue
#sextips Learn the 10 to 2 position for giving her oral
#sextips Sometimes use ice chips, peppermints, hall menthol when giving head
#sextips Stimulate your partners G-Spot
#sextips Blindfold your partner and tease their body with a feather or silk
#sextips Continue foreplay until Orgasm
#sextips Sex immediately after she Orgasms is riveting
#sextips Be vocal. Moan faster, slower, softer or harder
#sextips Talk dirty, they love it
#sextips Bite her on her ASS
#sextips When climaxing from Behind, Bite her back or shoulder
#sextips Give a tongue bath, stroke down the spine
#sextips Variety is key. Go hard one day and soft another day
#sextips Porn is Good, watch it
#sextips Raise your lower body to meet his thrust
#sextips Ladies, use your vagina muscles, especially as he climax
#sextips Ladies relax and let the orgasm cum
#sextips Too many to list